Day 17

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GriefDay 17
More boring adulting, dinner with the neighbors, and Easter Service.
More boring adulting, dinner with the neighbors, and Easter Service.
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Created: 2023-04-09 
  • Who's the boss?
  1. Swam. Laundry. Did a bunch of clean up stuff (moving things) around the house. Bought new Office Chair and folders, and organizers for paperwork. (I want my own system) -- and started filing and reconciling. The good news is the work keeps me distracted.
  2. While getting stuff at Office Depot, I got a migraine; can't see out of the lower right quadrant (sparkles). I don't get them often, and sometimes they go away pretty quickly. I finished buying things, and just kind of ignored it. Went next door to Target to buy some stuff they didn't have (I need patches for Jeans that I'm wearing through... if it was just holes in the legs I could call it style, but it's in the crotch. The jeans fit well, and I want to save them a little longer). Fortunately, the sparkles went away, I went to Uburrito (like a better Chipotle's); one of M's favorites. Had a couple Taco's and a margarita for her. It was a small frozen one... but the buzz kicked in for the drive home. I'd stopped for at a pool supply place to see about getting a "pool guy" to take that off my plate, and was definitely feeling it.
  3. Wasn't the best day grief wise -- it comes and goes. And I had to tell one of the Gardeners (Tucson property) that was asking "how is Miss Melissa was doing", that she'd passed.
  4. Did dinner with neighbors, and a late (day early) Easter Service... though I was a bit pouty and fuming during the service, as I felt short changed on the whole bargaining thing. On top of that it was a service that included a 30 year old lady in hospice for cancer that she'd died slowly of over the last 8 years. But she was talking about how her faith was getting her through. And I was thinking about the grief her husband is going to deal with soon.


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02/18 my wife had a 2023_Heart_Attack, and passed away on 03/22/23; the hardest day of my life. Except for the ones after it.

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